Single talk: "I don't need a boyfriend. I'm happy being single" translates to "I feel alone. I hope I have a boyfriend".
My question, how many douchebags do we have to meet before the right one comes along? How many 'being-with-a-guy-I-don't-love-and-end-up-labeled-a-heartless-bitch' do us girls need to get through before we can meet the right one? Well I don't know the answer to that. But if it helps.. plenty of times.
Nowadays, it's really hard to find a guy whose not longing for some sexy time (read: sex). And girls, out of our stupidity, always fall for the same trap. Well either you're horny or that.
People judge book by it's cover. Period. I got labeled a tramp maybe by several people already. As far as I know, I dress properly, I didn't swear much, etc you name it. But.. the thing is, me and my girlfriends loves to kick it in clubs after hanging out at a restaurant or cafe or whatever and get wasted one time or another on weekends. I mean, come on, we're adults and it's weekend and we live in a big city so what else entertainment can we get. What do guys see, seeing a drunk girl in a club, holding a glass (or bottle) of booze, screaming their lungs out trying to have fun? They see us as 'maybe I can nail her'. I don't blame them because that's the way it looks most of the times. If you're lucky, they will see you as 'I think she's cute'. If you're more lucky, he will take you out on an actual date, not a date in their bedroom.
People judge book by it's cover. Period. Life isn't a movie where there is always going to be one guy that will accept you no matter who you are, present or past. You need to act good in order to get something good, but don't be someone you're not. Be yourself, but behave.
So bottom line, if you want your douchebag list to be over, what you need to do first is taking a look at the mirror and see yourself and figure out if you ARE ready for the right one to come along.
I saw myself in the mirror today and figured.. Eh. I'm still game for being single because I know I'm not ready for a relationship, although a relationship is what I want right now. Life can be a bitch sometimes, that's why I'm learning how to fuck it right. Yee haw!
